The HARNESS Project
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Welcome to Consent Cafe

Browse our menu of activities, select your comfort level, and generate your personalized consent receipt to share with your partner(s).

🥐 Appetizers (Light Activities)

Spending time together

Intimate kissing

Physical affection

Close, non-sexual touch

🥗 Sides (Secondary Activities)

Taking pictures or video

Non-sexual touch

Sensual touch with clothes on

Intimate touching

🍽️ Main Course (Sexual Activities)

Mouth-to-genital contact

With condoms

Anal penetration or stimulation

Power play or kink activities

🎉 Combos (Group/Public Play)

Activity with multiple partners

Activity in public spaces

Your Receipt

Select items above and choose your comfort level for each.

Select items to generate receipt

💡 Tips:

  • • Be honest about your comfort level
  • • "Curious" means you'd like to explore
  • • "Maybe" means you want to discuss first
  • • Consent is ongoing—check in during and after